Travel Day 987 – Tiruvannamalai, Tamil Nadu, INDIA
Initially I wanted to leave today and visit Vellore with its castle, as well as Chennai, but since the day without people was so enjoyable yesterday, I decided to stay a little bit longer…
I was actually really surprised how different Tiruvannamalai felt yesterday after all the Westerners had left and the feeling of the spiritual soap opera had vanished. There really were only a handful of Westerners in town, but just like in a play they would appear one after the other at the few usual spots and play their personal role. Mostly of these roles revolved around the life in Tiruvannamalai and spirituality, leaving me with the impression that a spiritual-ego and a spiritual-competition pretty well existed in this place…
The only thing that was funny was that usually in a spiritual place there would be a very strict code of conduct and a clear separation of the sexes. But here in Tiruvannamalai none of the Westerners seemed to actually live in the Ramana Ashram in simple conditions and abiding to moral rules. Much rather everyone seemed to live a life of part-time spirituality here while behaving in a certain way when visiting the ashram and living a very different life when leaving and going home to the nicely air-conditioned apartment…
In the end it seemed spirituality was rather practiced theoretically while talking about it over an organic latte in one of the Western cafes. While this was definitely nice and fun, it was not really necessary to came to Tiruvannamalai to do that. But because of this strange phenomenon of the coffee-and-gossip-spirituality, because there was nothing else to do in town and because of the lack of moral conduct, all the strange drama and interrelationships between people seemed to arrive automatically…
Anyway, Tiruvannamalai was a strange place and when I got up early again to enjoy the empty Ramana Ashram, I had to also think that it was funny how the focus had shifted. People came for thousands of years for the Arunachala Mountain and for hundreds of years for the big Chola Temple, Annamalaiyar, but now only for the past couple of years people actually came mainly for the Ramana Ashram and I still had not found out what was so special about that place…
So I took the time to quietly walk around the whole Ramana Ashram. I visited all the places, I sat in the small meditation room for a while, I spent time in the small rooms with all the photos and I even enjoyed the open courtyards while watching the peacocks minding their business. It seemed actually funny to see all the peacocks here, trying to impress each other and constantly competing, just like the people here seemed to be competing spiritually…
When I left the Ramana Ashram, I obviously still didn’t feel a strong connection to it and I could only think that something was just not quite right here…
R Srinivas says
Dear Dennis Kopp
Thank you for your reply.I have known Tiruvannamalai for the past twenty years and visiting occassionly . Only since a couple of months I have made a couple of quick visits to Tiruvannamalai and done the Girivalam ie circumambulation of the mountain Arunachala. I have found peace doing that, just as much I would have I would find peace walking along the streets of Rome, mountains in Switzerland or going by the Tube rail in UK, the ultimate goal is finding peace with in ourselves or in other words trying to be comfortable with ourselves!
I am sure you are also visiting places in search of peace. One need not be spiritual or religious to find peace, thats the reason why I agree with you on the below mentioned comments of yours I have once again quoted as follows:
“Much rather everyone seemed to live a life of part-time spirituality here while behaving in a certain way when visiting the ashram and living a very different life when leaving and going home to the nicely air-conditioned apartment…In the end it seemed spirituality was rather practiced theoretically while talking about it over an organic latte in one of the Western cafes. While this was definitely nice and fun, it was not really necessary to come to Tiruvannamalai to do that”
I too feel what you have felt with westerners coming in search of spirituality, I am sure Ramana maharishi would not have approved of what’s going on in the ashram if he was alive today for what he taught was the life in silence mode! in short.
Dennis Kopp says
Thank you very much for your words Srinivas! Being able to find peace wherever you are is definitely a great quality that not everyone possesses. Going to Tiruvannamalai for that is probably not necessary as you mentioned. But it certainly would have been great to meet Ramana in person and to listen to his actual teachings…
Sunish Sebastian says
I was just going through your India travel list and looks like you have seen more of Tamil Nadu than I have. This is a place on my list to visit in Tamil Nadu!
Dennis Kopp says
Thank you Sunish! It is true that I have seen some places in Tamil Nadu already and I really enjoyed travelling southern India, but there is so much more to see. Definitely check out Tiruvannamalai and the Ramana Ashram when you get a chance, it is certainly an interesting place…
mahadeva sharma s says
dear…
Ashrams like Sri Ramanashram continue to radiate and are like rivers, anyone can drink water, wash his cloathes, just wash his feet, or watch others doing the same.
the relief got by the individual soul can not be measured by any outside person. I spoke to a Hungarian Girl in her thirties, who felt bad on her fate that she could visit India only once in 6 months because of the Visa problems. She has learnt Aksharamanamalai, a tamil work done by Sri Ramana… She says after reaching Arunachala, all the previous life has become meaningless…..Arunachalam is a sanctorium where more birds come have their thirst satisfied, those birds do not know that they are western or eastern…their aim is water…..
Dennis Kopp says
Thank you very much Mahadeva for your wonderful words! I am very happy to learn that many people find what what they seek in Tiruvannamalai and the Ramana Ashram. I guess every bird is different. For those needing water it might be right place, others might have to fly somewhere else to find what they are looking for…
Mariia says
Last summer during my internship in Tamil Nadu I visited this place by chance. And I remember that day as one of my best days there. So I was delighted to find this peace of memory here.
Thank you for sharing.
It evokes peaceful thoughts and ideas
Dennis Kopp says
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Mariia! It is great to hear that the Ramana Maharshi Ashram left you with such good memories…
namit says
To experience a connection with Ramana Ashram one must have a little knowledge about teachings of Sh Ramana Maharshi else it will be like any other place.
Read the book ‘Talks with Sh Ramana Maharshi’. Only a few pages will give a good glimpse. One can go to any page at random and read as these are conversations between people like us (not very spiritual) and each conversation is dated.
This book is free download on the internet. Just search online for ‘Talks with Sh Ramana Maharshi’ pdf.
Dennis Kopp says
Thanks a lot Namit, that is a great suggestion! I will have a look at the talks of Ramana Maharshi and see if they will help me understand the ashram a little bit better. Cheers…
Namit says
Thanks. You may also find David’s site interesting – http://davidgodman.org/
David came to Tiru in 1976 from UK for a brief visit but as destiny ordained he still stays there and has written many books and given interviews. Sometimes the language of a westerner is better understood.
One more book I liked very much is “Search in Secret India” by Paul Brunton. Paul was in search of truth but with ‘PROOF’. This book made Ramana Ashram popular all over the world as the author narrates his personal experience with Maharshi. This is also a free download on the net.
Your blog is very informative and inspiring. Thank you very much. I love reading it.
Best Wishes and safe traveling.